I don't mean me. I do mean someone. Someone who will listen, challenge, affirm, call out what they see in you, call out what God desires to see in you. A person who can see through your self promotion, self condemnation, your doubt and fear. Guys need other guys, ladies need other ladies.
A person who knows the Gospel, who has a strong command of God's word and who is bold enough to remind you of its truth in a way that breaks down your defenses, invites you in, even when you'll be wounded for your own good.
People like these are rare. Sometimes we reject them, other times we reject their words ultimately to our own detriment.
If you don't have a "guy" or a "gal" like this--you're missing out on part of God's best for your life.